Here is another post by Rick Phillips of Reformation 21, who is doing a series on Biblical Masculinity:
Understandably Feminist
1/25/2007
Therefore, while I firmly believe that we have to speak out against the kinds of hermeneutical arguments used to deflect the Bible’s insistence on male authority in the church, the far better solution is for men to exercise the kind of self-sacrificing, nurturing authority to which the Bible calls us. We will really have solved this problem when women delight to find themselves under nurturing, spiritual, male authority. Likewise, it is far from the case that women lack opportunities to exercise their gifts under a complementarian view of the church. In my view, it boils down to a trust issue, and the best remedy is for men to be trustworthy with the authority granted to them by God.
My disclaimer:Â My husband and I have observed, down through the years, an almost abusive type of male behavior put forth as being biblical headship. I am glad to read cogent criticism of this mind-set. I am not complaining about my own husband!